Quoting Keyboard Warrior.:" I'm a SAHM and I still don't do that for him. He's a grown man, he can clean up after himself. Hell, my 3 year old cleans up after himself."
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" Hell no. And I would never. Grown adults should pick up after themselves. What a turn off. Even when ... [snip!] ... when I was a sahm I would have never let my SO be a slob and pick up after him. That's rude of him to expect that from you."
Quoting That Girl.:" Dh leaves dip cups (spit) everywhere, leaves his clothes scaTtered everywhere soda/beer cans until recently. I went on a short strike. He then cleaned up his smurf"
Quoting windowlickerseverywhere:" going out of town is a good way to show him how much you do for him! then you arent there to eventually break down and do it."