Quoting Sweetheart...*:" They don't have grandparents that live nearby?"
Quoting Christina143:" Why doesn't the sperm donor just keep them for a over night visit? How old are they? It also does not ... [snip!] ... does not make u a Smurffy mom it makes u a good mom because when u get them back it will make u have more tolerence for them"3 and 2. He is too negligent. He doesn't even have a place to live. He doesn't have anything for them and I can't afford for him to steal my smurf. He doesn't even feed them the 6 hrs that they are there with him. He sleeps the whole time they are there so he can go get drugged up all night long. If it was up to me he wouldn't have them at all since he can't even pay the 37.80 every 2 weeks like he is supposed to and doesn't give a smurf about them anyways. The judge said if I keep them from him though that I will go to jail for contempt of court.