smurffy mom

I feel like a smurffy mom because the kids went with their sperm donor today for 6 hrs and I honestly wasn't ready to go get them at 4. Why can't I just have 1 night of peace and quiet without having to pay somebody to take them?

They don't have grandparents that live nearby?

Quoting Sweetheart...*:" They don't have grandparents that live nearby?"

My mom works, my dad doesn't do kids overnight until they are older, and their dad's dad and step mom won't take them.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" I feel like a smurffy mom because the kids went with their sperm donor today for 6 hrs and I honestly ... [snip!] ... ready to go get them at 4. Why can't I just have 1 night of peace and quiet without having to pay somebody to take them? "</blockquote>




Your not a smurffy mom just because you want some alone time

Why can't sperm donor take them the night ?

Why doesn't the sperm donor just keep them for a over night visit? How old are they? It also does not make u a Smurffy mom it makes u a good mom because when u get them back it will make u have more tolerence for them

I just wish my ex would see our girls. He was to get them today we was to meet at Walmart we sat for 30mins and he never came :/

Quoting Christina143:" Why doesn't the sperm donor just keep them for a over night visit? How old are they? It also does not ... [snip!] ... does not make u a Smurffy mom it makes u a good mom because when u get them back it will make u have more tolerence for them"

3 and 2. He is too negligent. He doesn't even have a place to live. He doesn't have anything for them and I can't afford for him to steal my smurf. He doesn't even feed them the 6 hrs that they are there with him. He sleeps the whole time they are there so he can go get drugged up all night long. If it was up to me he wouldn't have them at all since he can't even pay the 37.80 every 2 weeks like he is supposed to and doesn't give a smurf about them anyways. The judge said if I keep them from him though that I will go to jail for contempt of court.

Ahh I see, well that totally sucks I'm sorry to hear  ( I wish u could get more more help but not all dads are meant to be dads

I just want to go out with SO for ONE night without paying 30 bucks to have a babysitter. I can't afford 30 bucks.

I hear ya, I want alone time with my SO but my parents live 60 miles away and they never want to watch them anyways because 3 is too many

Yea I just ugh! I feel like I watch every one else's kids and then I get screwed over. It is like a never ending cycle.

Yup I hear ya, same way here.   Sucks ppl and men suck lol

lol yeaaappp. I think I'm gonna force my sister to watch them though.

There ya go! Just tell her ur in dire needs of a break for a night my sister does it sometimes as long as its not always! Lol