Quoting lolajessup:" No because as someone who was sexually abused and knowing others who were sexually abused it does more ... [snip!] ... remember it's a hard thing to deal with. An a lot of people who were molested have many emotional and relationship issues."
See I see it the other way around, as someone who was abused. That because I was I would want to tell my child if it happened to them.
I didnt find coping with it all was hard in my own personal experience and I was abused for countless years and remember every single detail. It does not bother me at all. But for those reasons I am more enclined to tell my child.