re: how old were u when u first had sex

Quoting melindapple:" that's okay. DD was born 4 months BEFORE we got married lol. We were engaged before i got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... get on birth control, rather than me tell her she has to wait and her end up pregnant because she was too afraid to ask lol."

Same.... I was 14 the first time.. was not with DH and regret it all the time... I thought I was in love, and all the bells and whistles... 5 months later he cheated on me it ended... Hubby on the other hand was 17, and I was his first.. When DD asks, I will be open and tell her. I will also add that I do regret it, and wish I could share being firsts with DH. I want her to be open. I was very open with my mom and got on BC when I asked... My mom was 16 when she had me and I never wanted that for me. and Definitely dont want that for DD

Quoting ~Mama 2 One~:" Same.... I was 14 the first time.. was not with DH and regret it all the time... I thought I was in ... [snip!] ... got on BC when I asked... My mom was 16 when she had me and I never wanted that for me. and Definitely dont want that for DD"

honestly, mom and I have never had the talk about her first time, or when she and my dad did... we have just recently started talking about that stuff. she was very anti-sex, anti-bc when I was a teen.

Quoting J+D=4:" honestly, mom and I have never had the talk about her first time, or when she and my dad did... we have ... [snip!] ... she and my dad did... we have just recently started talking about that stuff. she was very anti-sex, anti-bc when I was a teen."

Yea that was my Grandparents. They were Anti-sex and didnt think my mom was doing anything. They wouldnt discuss BC with her, and were very closed to anything of the type being talked about. She never felt comfortable going to them for things. She was 15 when she got Pregnant and planned to run away. It wasnt until she was 7 months pregnant with me that they found out. My mom said she always felt like if they were more open that she may have not gotten pregnant so young. So she wanted to be Open with myself and my brother so that we didnt have to be in the same situation as she was.

I was 14.. way too young.

13 way too young.

i was 13 way to young.. my friends were all doing it. my mum had already put me on the pill though. they found out once i told my aunt. very disappointed i was so dumb. i defiantly hope my daughter waits i regret it more then. anything

14.
Lost it to SO, though, so I don't regret it.

I was 18. I waited mostly cause I was scared of getting pregnant and didn't love any of the guys I dated

I was a few months shy of 14.

14 or 15.. It wasn't too memorable. lol

I was 17 at the time.

I was 13 but only 2 weeks before i was 14. And i was way to young. I wish i would of waited for another 4 months and i would of lost it to my babys father.

Quoting Mumma.to.be 13.10.12:" i was 13 way to young.. my friends were all doing it. my mum had already put me on the pill though. they ... [snip!] ... out once i told my aunt. very disappointed i was so dumb. i defiantly hope my daughter waits i regret it more then. anything"

  all these answers scare me!!
and a lot of times people same for the same reason, because all their friends were doing it, their 13 year old friends. My mom made me so scared of that haha.
My daughter is only 2 so I got plenty of time to figure out how to get her not to want to do it.

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" I was 13 but only 2 weeks before i was 14. And i was way to young. I wish i would of waited for another 4 months and i would of lost it to my babys father."

everything happens for a reason! no regrets, one little thing could change everything...kinda like back to the future lol

I was 13. Lol