re: how old were u when u first had sex

Quoting Christina/Chrissy:" 15...he was a couple months shy of 15...we had been together for 2 years....I married him and we are ... [snip!] ... waited.....now when my children as when we had sex they will be told April 5, 2008- the day their father and I got married, LOL"

lmao... hubby and I are debating on how to handle this one too... DS was born 6 months after we got married  

I was 15.

Quoting J+D=4:" lmao... hubby and I are debating on how to handle this one too... DS was born 6 months after we got married  "

I dont think you will be able to get away with it...eventually they will find out in your case once they figure out the math......ours could work....we didnt get pregnant until a year after we were married  

Quoting Christina/Chrissy:" I dont think you will be able to get away with it...eventually they will find out in your case once ... [snip!] ... in your case once they figure out the math......ours could work....we didnt get pregnant until a year after we were married  "

yup, we're screwed lol

Quoting J+D=4:" lmao... hubby and I are debating on how to handle this one too... DS was born 6 months after we got married  "

that's okay. DD was born 4 months BEFORE we got married lol. We were engaged before i got pregnant, but still. I'm just going to be honest with her. I'd rather her tell me she's having sex and get on birth control, rather than me tell her she has to wait and her end up pregnant because she was too afraid to ask lol.

Quoting J+D=4:" lmao... hubby and I are debating on how to handle this one too... DS was born 6 months after we got married  "

Lol DH and I didn't get married until DS was 2 1/2 so.... you have better luck than we do  

He was in our wedding and remembers it lol

Quoting Christina/Chrissy:" I dont think you will be able to get away with it...eventually they will find out in your case once ... [snip!] ... in your case once they figure out the math......ours could work....we didnt get pregnant until a year after we were married  "

My great-grandparents used to tell my nana that she 'came early'. Her and her sisters didn't question it until my uncle asked one day. My great-grandma said, "Barb came early." And my uncle said, "Hold on there, grandma. If she was conceived on your wedding night...she would have come two months early. That's impossible, back then babies born that early didn't survive." And my great-grandma looked at him, smiled, and she and my great-grandpa started laughing.

Quoting melindapple:" that's okay. DD was born 4 months BEFORE we got married lol. We were engaged before i got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... get on birth control, rather than me tell her she has to wait and her end up pregnant because she was too afraid to ask lol."

I want to create a relationship with my daughters that they can come to me as well, so I can help them...but I want them to know the importance of not rushing sex

Quoting melindapple:" that's okay. DD was born 4 months BEFORE we got married lol. We were engaged before i got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... get on birth control, rather than me tell her she has to wait and her end up pregnant because she was too afraid to ask lol."

Right? When I was maybe 15 or 16, my mom found my condoms and took them from me. It didn't stop me from having sex, it just meant I had unprotected sex.

Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" My great-grandparents used to tell my nana that she 'came early'. Her and her sisters didn't question ... [snip!] ... born that early didn't survive." And my great-grandma looked at him, smiled, and she and my great-grandpa started laughing."

haha, thats too funny when you catch the older generations "breaking the rules"

<blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>" that's okay. DD was born 4 months BEFORE we got married lol. We were engaged before i got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... get on birth control, rather than me tell her she has to wait and her end up pregnant because she was too afraid to ask lol."</blockquote>




My parents were secretive about sex. Saying they didnt have it till after they were married and had only been with each other. Only after id had sex and married were they honest. A big part of me giving in to my boyfriend(now hubby) was because i didnt think they understood. They also lied about drinking and drugs and i ended up in a big downward spiral till right before i got pregnant with ds1. I believe honesty is best when it comes to these major areas in our kids lives. We have been and will always be very honest with both our kids. I would much rather our boys come to us for advixe or help than for them to be sneaking behind our backs.

Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" My great-grandparents used to tell my nana that she 'came early'. Her and her sisters didn't question ... [snip!] ... born that early didn't survive." And my great-grandma looked at him, smiled, and she and my great-grandpa started laughing."

Lol same story with my grandmother. She STILL says that my uncle came early, but he would have been more than 2 months early, and he weighed like 9 lbs lol

Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" Right? When I was maybe 15 or 16, my mom found my condoms and took them from me. It didn't stop me from having sex, it just meant I had unprotected sex."

my parents found my sisters pills and threw them out.....my dad would also throw out thongs if he found them in the laundry, LOL

we used condoms for almost 2 years and then my senior year I got on the pill...but hid them well...after college my mom told me she knew I was on the pill my senior year in high school because my ass got big, LOL......so I would like to continue to think that is when she thinks I started having sex vs the summer before 10th grade....

Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" Right? When I was maybe 15 or 16, my mom found my condoms and took them from me. It didn't stop me from having sex, it just meant I had unprotected sex."

My mom found out i was having sex and refused to get me BC when i asked. When dad found out, he flipped out on her, and took me to get BC.

Quoting Chuck Bass:" Lol DH and I didn't get married until DS was 2 1/2 so.... you have better luck than we do   He was in our wedding and remembers it lol"

technically DS was too  
ya know, I dont even have a picture of our wedding. it was a JP wedding, and it took about 20 minutes. we have been planning a renewal for about 6 years now. I bought the dress, shoes, and everything I would need. but with deployments and PCS's we have put it off. we're hoping to do it on our 10 yr wedding anniversary, but idk if it will happen.