Fat

With all of the debate back and forth about how "all sizes are beautiful" and showing fat women in artistic fashions at an attempt to see them as beautiful, I wanted to pose the question...What about men? Do you believe men are "sexy" at any size?

Let's take away the glamorized "art" and show some basic photos and discuss what you see.






When looking at fat men, are you able to see the "beauty" in their bodies as you do a woman?

Debate.

I am about to walk out the door, so I don't have time to debate this, but I want it to be on my watched topics because I have some things to say about this.

No, I cant. I do find Kevin James sexy but not because of his body.

Honestly, no. And I can't do it with women, either.

Be fat and confident all you want.... but HEALTHY is sexy/beautiful to me. And I'm sorry, but 300 lbs is not healthy... no matter how you twist it.



All of that extra weight DOES pose health risks.

There are lots of bigger men ( and women ) I find attractive but NEVER want to see them naked. I don't find bigger sizes aesthetically pleasing

Quoting kthx.:" Honestly, no. And I can't do it with women, either. Be fat and confident all you want.... but HEALTHY ... [snip!] ... And I'm sorry, but 300 lbs is not healthy... no matter how you twist it. All of that extra weight DOES pose health risks."

This, basically.
I was trying to find a sensitive way to say it, haha.
I don't find it sexy in men, but i also don't in women.

I find nothing beautiful about being morbidly obese.

I find some larger men quite handsome and sexy. My SO is about 290 lbs, and 6 ft 1". He's not a tiny dude. I've never been physically attracted to the 'adonis' or the perfect man... Not to the extent of wanting to hop in bed with them.  

Before, I would've cringed to see a guy that looks like that... but SO is 6'1 and about 275 lbs.   He's a big guy, doesn't look as big as the guys in the pics do, but still... it's not his physical appearance that has me attracted to him.

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I find some larger men quite handsome and sexy. My SO is about 290 lbs, and 6 ft 1". He's not a tiny ... [snip!] ... never been physically attracted to the 'adonis' or the perfect man... Not to the extent of wanting to hop in bed with them.  "

DH is a larger guy as well, well, you've seen him. I find him very attractive but I don't find his belly attractive at all.

Not at all.

With women brains are designed to think a curvy woman is more fertile, better to mate with, etc.

When I see a super over weight man my honest first instinct goes to survival. Would he be able to be a provider physically if need be, like chop wood for heat, be able to be combative if our family was about to be harmed.

There is nothing ok about being that big. They all look like a burger away from heart failure!
I understand some people are more full figured...but that doesn't mean you have to be unhealthy.

Quoting kthx.:" Honestly, no. And I can't do it with women, either. Be fat and confident all you want.... but HEALTHY ... [snip!] ... And I'm sorry, but 300 lbs is not healthy... no matter how you twist it. All of that extra weight DOES pose health risks."

 

Obesity is not aesthetically pleasing on a male or female. IMO

Some men are sexy bigger....some aren't. Sometimes it's their personality and some times it's just because they seem so cuddly. lol I mean it just depends on the guy. My husband isn't very big but he isn't thin either...he has a gut but I am attracted to him of course. Different stroked for different folks.