re: Fat

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" DH is a larger guy as well, well, you've seen him. I find him very attractive but I don't find his belly attractive at all."

I don't mind SO's belly. He's naturally husky, he's literally running around at work all day, and eats really healthy now, and he's still larger. I really do think that for some men, it's genetics, same as some women.

Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's no reason to be over 200 lbs for most and all the health risks. Not attractive to me, people who take care of themselves are attractive in my view so that means yes that they work out, eat a balanced diet not perfect but not junk junk junk. And if a dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol

Though, I've only ever been with small(er) guys... until SO. He's 6'7 and 275 lbs.



Though... he's not really fat. I think it's because of his height... he has more muscle and is just... thick. LOL. I don't know how to explain it  

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I don't mind SO's belly. He's naturally husky, he's literally running around at work all day, and eats ... [snip!] ... and eats really healthy now, and he's still larger. I really do think that for some men, it's genetics, same as some women."

What I see when DH walks around naked is unhealthy. I have worried about his health for years. He eats horribly. I worry he'll have a heart attack or something  

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Some men are sexy bigger....some aren't. Sometimes it's their personality and some times it's just because ... [snip!] ... very big but he isn't thin either...he has a gut but I am attracted to him of course. Different stroked for different folks."

  Agreed.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's no reason to be over 200 lbs for most and all the health ... [snip!] ... out, eat a balanced diet not perfect but not junk junk junk. And if a dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"</blockquote>




Most men are over 6 ft. 200 is very acceptable

Quoting kthx.:" Though, I've only ever been with small(er) guys... until SO. He's 6'7 and 275 lbs. Though... he's ... [snip!] ... fat. I think it's because of his height... he has more muscle and is just... thick. LOL. I don't know how to explain it  "

He doesn't look fat from here.
and 6'7", nice  i love tall. I dated a 6'7" dude during my & jason's separation, he was dumb as hell, but so...tall  

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Though, I've only ever been with small(er) guys... until SO. He's 6'7 and 275 lbs. Though... he's ... [snip!] ... fat. I think it's because of his height... he has more muscle and is just... thick. LOL. I don't know how to explain it  "</blockquote>




From pics I've seen he looks barrel chested not fat

Quoting Spencer Pratt:" Obesity is not aesthetically pleasing on a male or female. IMO"

This

Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's ... [snip!] ... dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"</blockquote> Most men are over 6 ft. 200 is very acceptable"

 

Quoting KNZ.:" He doesn't look fat from here. and 6'7", nice  i love tall. I dated a 6'7" dude during my & jason's separation, he was dumb as hell, but so...tall   "

I love it! I'm only 5'7"   So even though I'm a bigger girl.... he can toss me around like a rag doll  

Anyways.....  

Quoting kthx.:" I love it! I'm only 5'7"   So even though I'm a bigger girl.... he can toss me around like a rag doll   Anyways.....  "

hahah that's awesome   i'm 5'4, so, i feel ya  

Quoting Rydicule91:" Big and beautiful only goes so far. There's no reason to be over 200 lbs for most and all the health ... [snip!] ... out, eat a balanced diet not perfect but not junk junk junk. And if a dude has bigger tits than me, that's unacceptable!! Lol"

You really shouldnt put a number on it though someone who is taller can easily carry more than 200 pounds without having health risks due to weight.

My husband is 6'5 240

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" What I see when DH walks around naked is unhealthy. I have worried about his health for years. He eats horribly. I worry he'll have a heart attack or something  "

SO's been to doctors, he's worked out, dieted... and NOTHING has helped.   His blood pressure's fine, he's perfectly healthy, with the exception of his weight.

No one can figure out why he can't lose any significant amount of weight.

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" SO's been to doctors, he's worked out, dieted... and NOTHING has helped.   His blood pressure's fine, ... [snip!] ... healthy, with the exception of his weight. No one can figure out why he can't lose any significant amount of weight. "

DH won't eat healthy. He says he will but he just won't. And forget about working out. I wish he would. He used to be very muscular.