Quoting Not tellin:" He got up with our son too. He can be useless if he is tired too but it is not an option to not step up and lend a hand on his kids. lol"
That's what I thought at first, but I'm such a control freak, that I think I messed up. Hard. Whenever SO changed a diaper, it would be all crooked and leak....so I got in the bad habit of checking his diapers and looking over his shoulder, and he caught onto what I was doing. So he got mad and refuses to change diapers anymore
Obviously if I'm not around, he won't let LO sit in a dirty diaper, but if I'm in the house, I'm on diaper duty...oh well, that's the time I get most of the baby smiles and laughs anyway
His loss...as far as feeding, LO is EBF, and I hate pumping, so that's all on me anyway...haha. Once LO gets a bit older (he's 5 months now) then SO knows (or at least better know) to step up a bit more, but until then, I'm happy with the way things are now