Quoting MommyCeleste.:" I no that after having a child a couple can go through rough patches or possibly fall out of love. Especially ... [snip!] ... & neither of you were ready. But do you think you can fall in love with each other again, Or fix things in the relationship?"
I have been married nearly 8 years. We go thru those moments here and there. Marriage/ relationships take a LOT of work. You have to make time for each other and the relationship away from the stresses of bills, work and kids.
For a while, I hated my husband. There were days I wish he would never come home from work. That is a nasty thing to have run thru a persons mind but, that is where we were in our relationship. I was dealing with PPD, PTSD and being a SAHM to 3 little kids. My twins are now 4 and my son is 2. My husband is gone a lot for work so, everything is on me to get handled. Run all the errands, pay all the bills, care for the kids 24/7 and I don't have anyone to help me or relieve me for a few moments. We went to counseling and really had to take time for us. Don't get me wrong, I still look at him sometimes with a WTF thought. lol I love him very much and I know I married the right man. It is just a lot of work to make it thru the rough patches. People are too worried about instant gratification these days. They don't want to put work into the relationship it is just easier to walk away.