I need to vent a little, and be reminded not contacting is the best choice.
I am now divorced and my ex husband is away in another state doing work. He's been gone for 2 weeks now and has only contacted our son 1 time, and didn't call back at a better time (I was driving, my hands free isn't the best for little voices in the back seat)
I'm trying really hard to not call him up right now and bitch his ass out, he knows he's wrong for doing this to our son.
I am so sorry i know its hard . There were about 4 weeks that my kids father barely saw them i called him up one day and started screaming at him saying he either needs to be an active part of the boys life and help me support them or stay the hell away completely. I also told him that our 2 month old would probably not even know who you are and so far he has been doing alot better he takes them every other weekend and he sees them at least once a week and buys diapers and wipes for them. Sometimes it takes calling them up and telling them how much of a smurffy father he has been to make him realize whats more important