re: i'm scared my son is gonna be spoiled..

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" By you saying that means you treat them different IMO"

different how?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" different how?"</blockquote>




By calling them "chunky monkeys" I'm really not picking on you I just want you to see the error in your ways

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Sadly we learn from our parents so if the older have been around it, they have a chance of being a lot like her in terms of relationships. Be back in a few kiddo woke up crying."

Well since her oldest is with his dad, hopefully he could undo any damage.
I'm getting off now anyway. DD is resisting sleep since she heard DH come home, which by the way OP, I knew was the father of my children WITHOUT a DNA test ;)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" 2 of my babies are overweight and i love my chunky monkeys the same."</blockquote>




You were asking in one of your posts when they would grow out of it. You obviously don't love them that much.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" By calling them "chunky monkeys" I'm really not picking on you I just want you to see the error in your ways"

i don't call them that to their faces. i use to but my daughter is older now and getting a little self conscious about it. she's slimming down really nicely though. i call my youngest son that and he's not chunky and i call my youngest daughter fatty and she's not fat. it's harmless

Quoting Taylor Migliano:" You were asking in one of your posts when they would grow out of it. You obviously don't love them that much."

i can't find a smurf to give about how much you think i love my kids.. sorry.

Quoting Taylor Migliano:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" 2 of my babies are overweight ... [snip!] ... You were asking in one of your posts when they would grow out of it. You obviously don't love them that much."

That doesn't mean she doesn't love them.
It means she doesn't understand they are overweight because of poor eating habits and unhealthy lifestyles.

Quoting Taylor Migliano:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" 2 of my babies are overweight ... [snip!] ... You were asking in one of your posts when they would grow out of it. You obviously don't love them that much."

SMH

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" i don't call them that to their faces. i use to but my daughter is older now and getting a little self ... [snip!] ... though. i call my youngest son that and he's not chunky and i call my youngest daughter fatty and she's not fat. it's harmless"</blockquote>




  once again

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" i can't find a smurf to give about how much you think i love my kids.. sorry."</blockquote>


Woops, looks like I pushed a button  

Quoting Taylor Migliano:" Woops, looks like I pushed a button  "

you didn't  

Welp you ladies have a nice time. My kiddo is crying again. I think her daddy bring gone allll day is bothering her but he is making money which we need right now so I am going to take her to my room and cuddle!

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Welp you ladies have a nice time. My kiddo is crying again. I think her daddy bring gone allll day is ... [snip!] ... allll day is bothering her but he is making money which we need right now so I am going to take her to my room and cuddle! "

Awwww. Give her lots of snuggles!!!

Mine's upstairs snoring right now.   I swear, kid has WAY too many of her dad's genes...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:</b>" Welp you ladies have a nice time. My kiddo is crying again. I think her daddy bring gone allll day is ... [snip!] ... allll day is bothering her but he is making money which we need right now so I am going to take her to my room and cuddle! "</blockquote>




 (( I wish my bugs were home! DH has a three day drill this weekend and I'm on ridiculous bed rest, so they're with my MIL until Sunday. They just left this afternoon and I'm already lonely, lol.