Quoting Finally #2:" He thinks I do way too much. And it certainly is overwhelming at the best of times, so right after having ... [snip!] ... to take on. But it has to be possible, I mean women have kids that are close in age like this, so whats the difference really?"
Let me tell you what the difference is, you choose NOT to have kids close together! You chose to do what was best for you and your family and keep your kids a few years apart so that you would not feel too overwhelmed by life!
You decided not to have a baby that you could not afford, because of so much debit you have to work multiple jobs.Still with multiple jobs can't aford day care. You did not DO THAT! She did. this is what she wanted to do , have a baby.
That is the difference.. you did not have this kid and you are not a daycare
I am sorry but I feel like I need to stick up for you!
Seriously I am not trying to sound mean or harsh it is that I feel like you are being taken advantage of, and I want you to be so happy with your new LO. This should be such a happy time! I want you to be happy posting pictures and braging about how happy and lucky you are!