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Quoting applelove:" Just make sure you are happy. If things start to get too hard then you need to talk with her. Or make ... [snip!] ... make your husband do it! It dose not need to be all or nothing. Maybe a few less days a week Congratulations on you new one!"

Thank you. And I will try to let someone either hubby or SIL know if I cant handle any more.