Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Like I said she is young. I dont think she will do it again.. I have said stupid smurf when I was younger ... [snip!] ... same way. I didnt do anything wrong. I look back and think "what a jackass I was" Of course I didnt say stuff like this!! lol"
She may learn and grow- we can hope. She is young and obviously ignorant, for sure. Hopefully this will be a lesson to her that it isn't OK to say things/be like that.
I dunno. I've never been a racist(which she is, whether she knows it or not-I'm thinking she was raised to think that was fine) so I can't connect with that at all. Racial slurs were a big NO in my home growing up, and are among the only "nope" words in my own home.