Quoting Safka9973:" I hate to hear such painful news. They definitely need to have a service. As her best friend you should ... [snip!] ... friends and family to help with their home maintanence and with bringing meals. What a sad time. Can I ask what happened?"
She had a a very rear condition called Omphalocele the baby has no abdominal wall when they have this. They all new it would be a hard road maybe a few months in the NICU but when she was born they found something else.
Her lungs were very underdeveloped. but she started to get better after a month in the hospital. The Dr said she would probably be on ventilation her whole life.
But a few days ago she took a huge step back and now her body is tired. Her heart is not handing the ventilation. Her body is just very overwhelmed and shutting down.
So toay they had to choose to stop the veltalation and let her go or keep it and let her go when that happens. They do have a DNR so I think today they are just waiting, she is not talking to amyone becuase she is with her baby now so I am not exactly sure what is going on.
it is sad