Quoting *Amo a Mis Nenas*:" yeah. i've been lucky that i haven't had to put them in daycare until now. and lucky with how much ... [snip!] ... i tried to teach her. bc i didn't want her to be behind. and it makes me happy to know she is doing so well in school.!"
Reminds me, I didnt think of this earlier since it was a long time ago since we did it. lol
But why dont you make a rule list of things you want to enforce for your kids, and get your parents to make one as well, and see where you guys are at. And go from there.
Like if you say no junk if they didnt complete their dinner, but gramma always does it anyways etc...then write it down and vice versa, maybe you are ok with them jumping on the couch but they dont like it etc....(just examples)
Then you guys can sit down and discuss it together, and maybe come to an agrement on those things.
Then you can tell them that when you are not home that what you agreed on is what is going to happen. Like no soda and junk, but maybe if you know that they will anyways come to a agreement that if the kids are good and your parents are following through withh what you want done dicipline wise, that on that 1 day they watch the kids you will look the other way on 1/2 cup of soda (if you can deal with it) lol cause if they are going to do it behind your back anyways, maybe let them but put a limit on it.
I know its sounds silly because its your kids and all, but our own parents dont see it that way. lol