Quoting baybe girl:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Subtle As A Hurricane:</b>" I've never been through this, but ... [snip!] ... they told her? I just don't want her growing up feeling like an outsider or anything because we told her too early or anything"
She always knew. I once heard a story where her dad told her to do something, but she told him she wouldn't do it because he wasn't her daddy. (She was 2-3.) Her dad said it really upset him. Now, her dad is her dad. The bio dad isn't even in the picture. She also has her dad's last name.