Quoting Emma Stone-♥-:" So...basically I mean...If a women is acting like a bitch towards her DH/SO..it's okay for him to call her a bitch?"
this isn't the same as the OP.
I was raised 2 wrongs dont' make a right. Yes.. I think being a bitch is as bad as being called one. But.. that does NOT mean it's ok to be one.. OR to call her one.
ALso... every couple has deal breaker situations. I do NOT tolerate name calling. I'm ok with calmly being told I'm being smurffy...NOT to being called a bitch. I don't want to be a bitch to someone Im with..and woudl rather the opportunity to calm down first before it gets to that point