Quoting Radame N Angela Robles:" Yea sometimes he see's me cry about it cus im just so stressed out and its like i dont want to punish ... [snip!] ... all the time because then i feel his whole time with me is that, the teacher thinks its cus im pregnant i already spoke to her"
What does your son say about it? Have you tried talking to his dad about it maybe? Maybe if he sat down with his dad about what is going on he would be more willing to tell him whats going on just because he's not having the problems at his dads? Maybe he will be a little more willing to open up to his dad than he is to you right now, and if so, then you can at least figure out where the problem stems from and talk to him about it. That's a smurffy situation. I don't have joint custody, my daughter goes every other weekend, and now and again the first few days she is home is a nightmare.