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Im sorry youre going through this  
I personally wouldnt let him see him. And I thought 3 was old enough to testify or at LEAST have the claims taken seriously enough for a investigation to be started.

No way in hell would there be any contact if we were in that position.

And if he went for custody, POOF! I would take my kid and be in Mexico the next day.

Eeek, wow. Well I would do whatever I could to keep him away from his father. That will never end well, even if he is doing better. Once a pedophile always a pedophile. I would keep my kid FAR away from him. I would not want something happening to my kid especially if I knew how his father was and still brought him around him, imagine the guilt you would feel then.

Omg. I would do whatever you possibly can to keep your little boy safe. Some people aren't meant to be parents, an I'd say this is such a case

Take your boy to DFYS, OCS, whatever. They can do an investigation and interview your son.

I wouldn't let him. That's scary smurf and I would never be able to forgive myself if I let my child near someone like that and come to find out he's been raped or molested.

Why not just let him call him occasionally?

wow this world is f up you have every right to protect your child...if you have to do supervised visits only i know it sucks but its better then having mommy in jail..and find a diff lawyer

I would not want him alone with my kid, that's the only thing I know. I would feel paranoid and angry and probably sick being in the situation. I dont know how I would deal with it all, probably get a good lawyer. Sorry youre going through this, it's a difficult situation for you and.your son sounds like  

If my BD was a pedophile and took pictures of my sons private areas, there is no way in hell I would allow them to keep in contact. No way in hell

I would NOT let him see or even talk over the phone if he told you his father took photos of his penis, nope no way.

Sorry you're going through that.  

My ex husband is a pedophile and almost the same situation with the computer images. During our divorce I was going to allow supervised only visits but after lots of thought we decided it was best for no contact. I know the position you are in but do not give an inch for even allowing supervised visits, if you do and he decides he wants to take you to court for custody the courts will see you didn't have a problem with that and give him more rights. Giving any amount of wriggle room here can damn you in the courts.

They said they wanted to have a specialist talk to ds, but like I said they don't keep in contact.

I would seek legal advice but I wouldn't allow him to visit unless totally supervised by a professional at a public place I also would have your child see a councillor that could talk to him about daddy taking pics of him that way there professional opinion will some proof to go forward with. Wow good luck that's a lot to worry about

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" I wouldn't let him. That's scary smurf and I would never be able to forgive myself if I let my child near ... [snip!] ... my child near someone like that and come to find out he's been raped or molested. Why not just let him call him occasionally?"

I wouldn't. It would be like a tease. Better for the guy to be out of the kids life completely than to stay lingering.

Quoting Kiss Kiss Bang Bang:" If my BD was a pedophile and took pictures of my sons private areas, there is no way in hell I would allow them to keep in contact. No way in hell"

This.
No contact from BD EVER again.