Quoting ღ Diana ღ:" no your BF is not her biological father and you are not married. Why is he not on the BC? "
The courts will recognize who's caring for the child, I don't think it's a default hand over the child to the bio father.
In fact, if SO and BD took me to court for custody, SO would have a better chance of getting it.
OP, here we have "god parents" and it just legally means if you die your child will go to them - but you need to have that legally set up, and I don't know how (probably involves a will).
One question to everyone, since when did it matter who's name are on the BC? Where are these supposed names even written? In the paperwork or on the actual card?