Quoting Peppa pig:" Talking to someone on a dating site is unacceptable... as for the subscription to an adult site? what ... [snip!] ... if that's real)??.. Personally I never found it an issue for an SO to watch porn...but going the next step is another story"
I don't have an issue with watching porn. My issue is that they are adult sites with porn but you can also send messages to people etc. With the dating site, it was basically the same thing. And he showed me the messages from the first time it came up and it was basically him asking for pictures. That is the only reason why I think this is more of an addiction issue then a cheating issue. Neither is fine with me, but I guess I am willing to take it to this point for the sake of my family. I've already decided if it turns into a huge yelling contest or him not being willing to actually do something about it then I am done. I refuse to continue living my life with someone who wants to do nothing to improve theirs.