re: deleted

Quoting Brynn's Mommy (::" I agree 100%. I'm not alright with any of this. IMO you are engaged to me by your choice. No one pressured ... [snip!] ... else into the situation such as a counselor etc because now someone else is aware of what he is doing right now it's just me."

And I agree 100% with everything you just said.

Quoting Brynn's Mommy (::" The two that I found today which were like porn sites, he opened in September. So unfortunately they ... [snip!] ... other, but he started using it again to try to get pictures from women. When I found out he did delete himself from the page."

It's okay if you're uncomfortable with porn, but it's a generally accepted thing. Honestly, if your husband is looking at porn then there's nothing wrong with him or you lol. I would be upset if he was on dating websites, on on those live webcam sites, etc. Porn? No. The only time porn is an issue imo, is if he'd rather jack off to it instead of have sex with you.

Quoting Rd.:" It's okay if you're uncomfortable with porn, but it's a generally accepted thing. Honestly, if your husband ... [snip!] ... webcam sites, etc. Porn? No. The only time porn is an issue imo, is if he'd rather jack off to it instead of have sex with you."

I'm fine with just porn it's the whole taking it to the next level of actually allowing yourself to be contacted by people interested in those things. We just talked a few minutes ago. Didn't go well. I gave him a chance to come clean and he lied to my face so I brought it all up. He left and all he can say is sorry. Sorry isn't an acceptable answer to me right now.