Quoting P Pickle Pants:" She does it because you give in. Stop giving in and she'll stop doing it. You are giving her control. Be firm. Be consistent."
Oh, I know I created a monster. I just recently quit my a job a few days ago, but at the time, I had to get up at 345 in the morning to get the kids ready (on the days I worked) and work a 13 hour shift..so it was easier to just give in, ya know? Esp if I managed to get her in bed by 10 and she wakes up at 2 screaming. And the other part of me is overcompensating for the fact that I can't be there with the kids every night. I know I kinda screwed myself. lol.
It's not even the bedtime issue..it's just her tantrums are out of control ONLY with me.
And they say that 3's are harder than 2's. IDK how I'm going to survive her.