re: VENT!! SORRY

So....who's she's hiding her double life from at home that she's pretending to hang out with you everytime she meets up with someone? I'd lock your door and not let her in til she gets the hint.

Quoting BabyMomma2AmazinBabyDaddy:" So....who's she's hiding her double life from at home that she's pretending to hang out with you everytime she meets up with someone? I'd lock your door and not let her in til she gets the hint."

LMAO sory u are the 1st one to ask that and hit it on the head...Shes hidign it from her parents who she lives with and has a 1yr old son....son is at dads today. she gets her son thursday to sunday.

  well if you value her as a friend I'd sit down and have a serious chat with her...she's nvr going to find happiness in random encounters nor is it healthy. If she's doing things she's so embarrassed she has to hide them she should really re-evaluate her life. Not knowing the whole story its really not my place to say but I'm guessing this girl could use some professional help. Not saying she's crazy or 'smurfed up' but an unobjective ear can be helpful.

If you'd don't value her as a friend say smurf it n tell her to get lost.

just my thoughts on the matter.  

Tell her you're not running a brothel and to gtfo!!! That smurf is nastyyy

Maybe its just because I'm a bitch ..... sweetie, grab your nuts and "man up."

Tell the little freeloading skanker that your home isn't a holding pen for her sexual exploits. If she was actually coming to visit YOU and then would go see them now and then ok, fine, its your sex like toots, but to come over and just sit around waiting for the text? To disrespect YOU and YOUR household by showing up uninvited like she has every RIGHT to be there? She'd be damn lucky not to get a preggo beat down from me.

Remember, balls of steel and 12 inches of pure imagination - don't let anyone mistreat you.

Quoting Mommy124:" LMAO sory u are the 1st one to ask that and hit it on the head...Shes hidign it from her parents who she lives with and has a 1yr old son....son is at dads today. she gets her son thursday to sunday."

So she leaves her son with her parents so she can go use your house and friendship and she can have irresponsible sex with someone else she is essentially using? I am sorry hun but she is not worth your time at all!
Like some of the other ladies up here said she or the people you dont know from these craigslist sites could be extremely dark people! They could steal something or worse! And if they dont steal something now they could be as easily casing your house if they see where you live, I hope I am not scaring you too much I just want too make sure you see what she is risking with you.
I know its not easy to show her the door but she is not treating you like a friend should, No respect and no responsibility is what she seems to have.
Next time she tries this think about how you would feel if your baby is already born and she is bringing strangers around? And do yourself a favor and tell her till she can turn her life around and start acting like the friend she was before you dont want her near you or your family.
I hope things get better and you dont have to stress out from her! You take care and remember I am only a message away!

Quoting máthair draíocht:" Maybe its just because I'm a bitch ..... sweetie, grab your nuts and "man up." Tell the little freeloading ... [snip!] ... to get a preggo beat down from me. Remember, balls of steel and 12 inches of pure imagination - don't let anyone mistreat you."

I am on the same breath as you here your house shouldn't be used as a brothel for other people!
If I had a friend like that It wouldn't have got past the first question I am afraid with the mood swings we girls get while preggo LOL
But really like Your saying letting people mistreat you and thinking you can either ignore it or it will go away is a waste of time you gotta put your foot down and gather around you the people who love you for who you are and will be there for you no matter what, not the ones who will use you and view you as a convenience.
We may not have balls, but we have ovaries and them MF's pack a whallop hehehe

She hasnt used my house at all and will NEVER use it cuz that is just nasty as hell. Plus like you all said idk these ppl and wat if they bring diease or watever in my house NO THANK YOU lol....I have talked to her about her seeing other ppl that she dont know and have told her one of these days we are going to get a phone call saying they found her dead somewhere adn to think about her son but it doesnt get through to her. Its like in one ear and out the other. I mean me and my hubby both have tried and its gettign to the point where this is gettign really upsetting and bullsmurfish....I love her son to death since he is our godson but this is not wat he needs at all to learn his mom is a whore. We have told her that if the cops find out what shes doing they could take her son away or the dad could, but she dont seem to care at all....I kno this is mean but she should have never gotten pregnant and had him cuz she so wasnt ready to grow up and leave the semi party life she wants. I love our godson liek our own but I cant stand this anymore I dont want to get that call she is dead. We have tried so hard to talk to her aout it but she doesnt listen at all. And idk y she does it..Maybe a low self estem or somethign b/c she doesnt feel pretty cuz she a bigger person even tho i dont think that should be a reason but for some it is....sorry for any spelling problems I have dyslexia so spell thing how they sounds lol

Quoting Mommy124:" She hasnt used my house at all and will NEVER use it cuz that is just nasty as hell. Plus like you all ... [snip!] ... should be a reason but for some it is....sorry for any spelling problems I have dyslexia so spell thing how they sounds lol"

It very much sounds like a low self esteem thing - in fact thats what makes most girls go whore-ish, but the fact that she's so low she's willing to risk EVERYTHING suggests she could benefit with some intense counseling. The fact thats she 'in one ear and out the other' means she wont get it on her own.

Dude she is going to catch an std fn cregslist people. Omg is she like a sex addict!?

she already has hurpies from an ex boyfriend and doesnt tell anyome she is sleeping with. She has told me she has only had 1 break out but still u should still tell ppl. I think she does need help but I know if I tell her or set something up she will go crazy. Idk y she is doing it at all. There has got to be a reason also y she is like this but I dont know of anything except her mom can be a bitch to her at sometimes but it is the nosey kind.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy124:</b>" she already has hurpies from an ex boyfriend and doesnt tell anyome she is sleeping with. She has told ... [snip!] ... also y she is like this but I dont know of anything except her mom can be a bitch to her at sometimes but it is the nosey kind."</blockquote>




So she thinks smurfing up other peoples lives just to get her itch scratched is fun??? Seriously sit her down and talk to her. I can say someone is going to end up killing her when they find out they have hurpies.

Quoting Gabrielle Hamblin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy124:</b>" she already has hurpies from an ex boyfriend ... [snip!] ... Seriously sit her down and talk to her. I can say someone is going to end up killing her when they find out they have hurpies."

I have tried but nothing. We have voiced our concerns about us getting a call about her being found dead in a ditch but nothing. We havent talked or hung out since this post. So I dont know wats going on in her life anymore.