Some people....VENT

Okay so I absolutely cannot stand people that choose to put their two cents in when it is not needed. I have 3 cousins that just had a baby, my best friend/cousin is now pregnant, and another one of my friends is having a baby in Jan. Let's just say I am having baby fever like crazyyyyyy. Anyways my brother in law, moved into his best friends house due to a whole lot of drama when he was like 16. Well i dont even really know the guy that took care of him, but Billy knew him so I accepted his friend request on facebook forever ago and hes always been nothing but nice. Like I said though we aren't close of anything. Well I post that I have baby fever and he decides to tell me about myself i guess....heres what happened ahhaha I'm just going to post what was said between me and him, but in the comments I put that I am planning on waiting until I get my college degree next year just incase it confuses you.

first thing he posted:
For god's sake get a grip on yourself.


second thing he posted:
Are you going to have the 2.5 million it will take to raise them and the other million it will take to put them through college? Unfortunately, it takes more than love to raise kids. It is selfish to just "want" a child without the resources to give it the life it deserves. I care a great deal for you and Billy Summer and I'm sure you are loving parents and that your kids are taken care of but don't you want them to have every thing they deserve and to not have to go through all the trials and tribulations you have had to go through to have what you have? Having more children will only make that more difficult to achieve for the ones you do have. I say this with love and alot of experience.


what i posted:
ts not unheard of to have more than two children? I dont feel like that means I need tl get a grip on myself. I understand where you are coming from dont get me wrong but my kids have never wanted for anything and never will. Billy makes good money and thats good income without the college degree I will have next year. Which is why I said I would be waiting until I graduate from college. Ive always planned to have at least 3 kids....

Maybe I'm being too sensitive, idk. I mean seriously is having more than 2 kids so freaking horrible???? Where I'm from people have at least 2 all the time geez. I don't feel like my kids won't have what they want. ugh, anyways...just had to get that out.

oh and this was my original post

All these babies are making me want another one....arghhhh.

... i'm guessing there's more to this?

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" ... i'm guessing there's more to this?"

i added the rest...

A lot of people think that having more than 1 or 2 kids is swlfish. I would just delete him and move on.

My min and sister say the same thing to me. I only have 1. I'm slowly learning not to give a smurf about what they say

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" My min and sister say the same thing to me. I only have 1. I'm slowly learning not to give a smurf about what they say"

Idk i've never had anyone tell me something like that before. Guess its cause he doesn't really know anything about us ahahah i was just like wtf?

He sounds like an ass... lol I wish some1 would haha, delete him and finish college and make a baby lol

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" He sounds like an ass... lol I wish some1 would haha, delete him and finish college and make a baby lol"

I plan on it lmfao. There were seriously so many immature replies that went through my head when he posted that, but I decided not to go with them  

I am going to guess that if people only had kids based on if we could afford $2.5million worth of needs and wants and a million dollar education, the human population would be damn near extinct.

Babycenter reports that it costs $30-$80 a month to diaper one child. I diaper 2 kids for less than $40 a month, so I call all these so call statistics bullsmurf.
Raising a kid isnt cheap, but I am not shelling out all that money up front.

i'd probably delete him lol you can't let anyone get you down. it's not even worth a response, really. delete his response and move on.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" I am going to guess that if people only had kids based on if we could afford $2.5million worth of needs ... [snip!] ... so I call all these so call statistics bullsmurf. Raising a kid isnt cheap, but I am not shelling out all that money up front."

See I have two kids 18 months apart so we were diapering two for a while and it wasn't that bad. Right now I have an almost 3 year old, a 1 1/2 year old, and a 16 year old we are providing for and it seriously isn't breaking us so i mean how the hell are you gonna tell me I need to get a grip cause i couldn't afford 3 when I already am? lol

Anyways...lol my college isn't even costing 1 million? As long as you make good grades in La, your college is pretty much paid for.

WTF? Maybe it's where I'm from, but I don't know anyone with less than 2 kids and most of them have 4 or 5 and none of those families are hurting or wanting for anything. I personally want 4 or 5 myself. 3 kids is perfectly normal. Forget him.

I also personally think the notion of making sure you have enough money to buy your kid everything they want is ridiculous. If you want a spoiled brat who has never worked for anything in their life and doesn't appreciate the value of the things they have, make sure they always get everything they want. I grew up with 2 siblings in a one parent home and no, I did not always have everything I wanted, but I did have everything I needed and many of the things I wanted. And when I got the things I wanted I was much more appreciative than my friends who got brand new ipods and cars every time something new came out.

Also, who the hell pays a million dollars for college?? My college degree cost me $40,000.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Reise's Mommy:</b>" WTF? Maybe it's where I'm from, but I don't know anyone with less than 2 kids and most of them have 4 ... [snip!] ... I wanted I was much more appreciative than my friends who got brand new ipods and cars every time something new came out."</blockquote>




My point exactly and yes where im from people have tons of kids! I always wanted 5 kids even though I was an only child which I hated!