re: Here it goes

<blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" It's not that hard to imagine. Women who work that get weekends off know exactly what it will be like. ... [snip!] ... what it will be like. It will be like getting a weekend every day of the week. That basically is sitting on your ass all day. "</blockquote>




You are so crazy! I have worked and took care of my children. It's hard either way. I've been in BOTH situations they are BOTH hard. Just Stfu already.

Quoting Isaiah & Delilah's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" And stop arguing about what job is harder. Everything ... [snip!] ... all hard. However I'm gonna let her know that just because I'm a SAHM doesn't mean I sit on my ass all day and do nothing.."

What do you do? Clean the house? Grocery shop? Laundry....Things working moms do on top of their jobs?

Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Wow you are very ignorant. Yes good for her to look for a job. Like I stated last night not really into ... [snip!] ... payin 475$ a week to someone who I don't know or trust and knowing she won't get the care she gets at home I can't do it sorry"

You can always work opposite shifts as your SO or have a family member watch your LO. That's what we're going to do.

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" It's not that hard to imagine. Women who work that get weekends off know exactly what it will be like. ... [snip!] ... what it will be like. It will be like getting a weekend every day of the week. That basically is sitting on your ass all day. "

Smurf you.

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" It's not that hard to imagine. Women who work that get weekends off know exactly what it will be like. ... [snip!] ... what it will be like. It will be like getting a weekend every day of the week. That basically is sitting on your ass all day. "

Spend one day with a SAHM then feel free to tell me how easy it is. Until then, shut the smurf up about the matter because you clearly don't know what you're talking about.

Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Wow you are very ignorant. Yes good for her to look for a job. Like I stated last night not really into ... [snip!] ... payin 475$ a week to someone who I don't know or trust and knowing she won't get the care she gets at home I can't do it sorry"

Excuses.....

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" Nooo. Being a SAHM mom and being a working mom are not on the same level....Staying at home with a child... ... [snip!] ... it's just one is much easier. After my baby is born, I am going to be home for 3 months. I know I am going to die of boredom. "

Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, smurf, and sleep.


The women that have to deal with multiple toddlers/young children running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so smurfing juvenile.

I know here in Washington you only get benefits if you do a work first program. For several hours out of the week.
It's a job searching thing, if you don't you lose your benefits, they start with deducting 40% then all of it after a while.
So technically it's not 100% given with out doing anything.
The only time people get away with not participating is if they have a doctors note saying that they cannot work.

Quoting kthx.:" Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, smurf, and sleep. The women that ... [snip!] ... running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so smurfing juvenile. "

I LOVE YOU!   

Quoting S&T+1:" Spend one day with a SAHM then feel free to tell me how easy it is. Until then, shut the smurf up about the matter because you clearly don't know what you're talking about."

Being SAHM mom isn't as hard as a mother who works and then comes home and takes care of her children, especially if she's single.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, smurf, and sleep. The women that ... [snip!] ... running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so smurfing juvenile. "</blockquote>



 

Quoting Isaiah & Delilah's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" It's not that hard to imagine. Women ... [snip!] ... worked and took care of my children. It's hard either way. I've been in BOTH situations they are BOTH hard. Just Stfu already."

Both may be hard...but which is harder? Being a SAHM or Working AND doing all the things a SAHM does?

Quoting katxo:" I LOVE YOU!   "

  <3 <3

Quoting *Turtles*:" You can always work opposite shifts as your SO or have a family member watch your LO. That's what we're going to do."

   
But she wants to stay at home and live off of her SO so you can't reason with her. No point in trying.  

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" What do you do? Clean the house? Grocery shop? Laundry....Things working moms do on top of their jobs? "

Take care of DD
Clean
grocery shop
make sure everything is in order
help DH with his homework when he falls behind during the week
Take care of the animals (two dogs Two horses)
Then come back in and teach the baby letters numbers etc.
make sure she is set
start dinner get DH's stuff ready for work and then if I am lucky I sit down about 830-900pm and start it all over again