Quoting s00nt0be04:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SoonToBeProudMommyOf3:</b>" I'm the same way, I have soo much ... [snip!] ... its not a shower. I mean they can do so I won't really have the time but just would rather let them know this is what we want."
Yeah, same here. My best friend was wanting to do one for me because it's my first girl but I feel greedy having a shower when I don't need it. I just figure, if they come over to hang out and meet baby, there is no obligation, but if they bring a present, all is good lol
I'll probably just tell everyone 'hey come over on March ____, just a few days after baby comes home and come meet her! snacks and drinks provided, presents not necessary!' lol