Quoting A New Meaning To Life!!:" sooo ive been hearing alot of ppl here and there talking (smack) about me... me being pregnant at 21 ... [snip!] ... ooh boy your going to know what fun is"?? like wtf ??!! seriously i finished my school, i have a job and we have our own place "
I'm 21 and this is my 3rd pregnancy. Let's just say I'm not looking forward to telling my family...
I feel that as young women we have a tendency to judge ourselves through other people's eyes.
Over the course of Human History 21 was OLD to be having a baby. Childbirth is often healthier for the mother and the baby when the mother is in her younger child bearing years.
I don't think anyone no matter their age is ever completely "ready" for a baby. that's something that settles in over time.
bottom line is. a lot of people are stupid and judgemental. you got this girl. don't let it phase you.