re: is my age really a problem?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Rhienn ♥:</b>" I did that alot when i was pregnant with my first. I was at the beach once, wearing my shorts and bikini tops and some lady was giving me the dirtiest look and i just rubbed my belly even more lol"</blockquote>




Lmfao! It makes me feel like I'm rubbing a beer belly I get a kick out of it! People are sooo damn ignorant sometimes! I don't know why they even look if they are obviously so bothered by it. People are rude! I'm 34 weeks pregnant and a still have guys trying to cat call me and crap. -.- it's sooooo annoying, I get so pissy and just end up running my mouth about how stupid they made themselves look attempting to talk to a pregnant ass female Lmfao. >.< I was hoping it would stop with my belly poking out but.. Of course not ):

Quoting xNikkiNinjuhh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Rhienn ♥:</b>" I did that alot when i was ... [snip!] ... to talk to a pregnant ass female Lmfao. >.< I was hoping it would stop with my belly poking out but.. Of course not ):"

Lol. I hated when guys tried hitting on me, its like uh dont you see my huge belly

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Rhienn ♥:</b>" Lol. I hated when guys tried hitting on me, its like uh dont you see my huge belly "</blockquote>




Lmfao! Exactly, it's the creepiest thing ever. 1: they just wanna get laid or 2: they have a fetish for pregnant women. Either way it's disgusting Lmfao.

Quoting xNikkiNinjuhh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Rhienn ♥:</b>" Lol. I hated when guys tried ... [snip!] ... thing ever. 1: they just wanna get laid or 2: they have a fetish for pregnant women. Either way it's disgusting Lmfao."

yea its pretty gross and sad they even have the nerve to do that

Since this is in teen pregnancy I expected you to be like 14 lol not 21!

When I was working and pregnant with my first I used to get complete strangers asking me how old I was, if I was married, if the baby's father was involved, etc. People love to judge. Just ignore them...if you're happy and you have everything you need to provide for your baby, that's all that matters.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A New Meaning To Life!!:</b>" sooo ive been hearing alot of ppl here and there talking (smack) about me... me being pregnant at 21 ... [snip!] ... ooh boy your going to know what fun is"?? like wtf ??!! seriously i finished my school, i have a job and we have our own place "</blockquote>




I don't have that issue I had dd at 19 married with no Deere I feel there is a big difference btw north and south though our northern friends thought we were crazy when we found out they think 25 is to young when down here it's actually common and accepted

Quoting A New Meaning To Life!!:" sooo ive been hearing alot of ppl here and there talking (smack) about me... me being pregnant at 21 ... [snip!] ... ooh boy your going to know what fun is"?? like wtf ??!! seriously i finished my school, i have a job and we have our own place "

I'm 21 and this is my 3rd pregnancy. Let's just say I'm not looking forward to telling my family...
I feel that as young women we have a tendency to judge ourselves through other people's eyes.
Over the course of Human History 21 was OLD to be having a baby. Childbirth is often healthier for the mother and the baby when the mother is in her younger child bearing years.
I don't think anyone no matter their age is ever completely "ready" for a baby. that's something that settles in over time.

bottom line is. a lot of people are stupid and judgemental. you got this girl. don't let it phase you.

thank you ladies.. every bodies words were helpful now im looking at my sister like.."damn your right sis" lol she said i should get smacked for taking in all the stupid smurf ppl have said..but after all they are not taking care of me or my baby .. so i will keep my head up wen ever i go to any store and just smile...!  


thank you i appreciate it.!

dont worry about what other people say i am 18 and will be having my 1st kid when i turn 19 in January and she is suppose to be here in February. so dont worry about what other people say. trust me i dont let things like that bother me at all. because people are stupid now a days.

I'm 19 and I was walking through the mall the other day, then went to Target, and a few weeks before that I went to my old high school for my nephews band comp. And I kept getting questions like are you still going here. And I get weird looks. I'm almost 20 years old o.o and people look at me like I'm 12. Being pregnant and showing. I snap at the looks freely and blame my hormones. <-- it'll make you feel better.

I'm 20 years old and 7 months pregnant with my first. I'm 5 foot tall and honestly look 14.. I've never got any negative comments. Plus if someone would have the gonads to say something I would put it in their face. It's none of their business as far as I'm concerned me and SO have our own house,pay our own bills,and don't"live" off the state so if we want to have a child then so be it!

Wow people can be so judgmental, just don't worry about it, you have your stuff together and your having a baby! no blessing gets bigger than that   don't let smurf strangers who don't have a clue who you are upset you  

And when I was pregnant I would get dirty looks too, got pregnant at 18 and look younger than my age so probably looked 15 would just smile, kill them with kindness and show you don't give a f***  

I'm 21 and I have a 10 month old and I occasionally would get weird looks. I also look like I'm about 16 so I can kind of understand... You know you're not too young so try not to let it get to you.

The worst was when I went to my little brother's open house (he is in middle school). I brought my daughter and parents around me had these appalled looks on their faces. They clearly thought I was a student. I considered having fake conversations as I past them about how being a mom at 13 was lots of fun haha!
Just try to shrug it off. If they do make a comment you can just explain what I am always saying.. "Look bitch, I'm 21, I am married to the father, I graduated college, and we own are own home... I'm not 16. Haven't you ever heard that assuming makes an ass of you and me?" and then just walk away lol