really frustrated with finace step mom

Okay this may be kind of long and i am sorry in advance. My finace's step mom is one crazy lady. We all literally think she needs to join the loony bin soon. well my mom and i have decided when we are doing my baby shower and my mom is throwing it for me. I want to invite my finace's half sister and step sister because i love them both, but my mom hates his step mom. She recently tried making me sign a contract saying that he would make weekly payments to me for the baby and I told her no thats child support and last time I checked we are still together and he is doing what he can to take care of us. I told my about it mom and she was furious. this woman tries to tell me what I can and cant eat and freaks out over the slighest things. I tried eating a cookie and she freaked out. I honestly dont want her at my baby shower because i dont want any issues and she is one of those people who likes to put more stress on people and she puts a lot of stress on me. But like I said I dont want her at my baby shower but i want her daughters there. I know the oldest one wont say anything because she hates her mom but the other one who is my age and also pregnant I dont know about. does anyone have any advice on what I should do? I dont want to be mean an say look I dont want you there your crazy. He also doesn't want her there either.

Bah, I totally thought this was about money.

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" Bah, I totally thought this was about money."

to that crazy woman everything is anout money or just being straight crazy lol!

i would invite both of them and if she has a problem with it tell her u want to enjoy ur shower and dont think u can with her there.. if ur fiance is agreeing with u then it shouldnt be something to worry about.. its not like u have to see her all the time.. and in the future if she tries to give u problems u can tell her to leave u alone or u can leave.. hope everything works out!

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" Bah, I totally thought this was about money."

 

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" Bah, I totally thought this was about money."

 

*dies.*

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" Bah, I totally thought this was about money."</blockquote>




I did too.

 

You said your mom is throwing the shower. So let your mom invite the two sisters. Then it's not on you that your future MIL isn't invited because you didn't do the invitations.

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" You said your mom is throwing the shower. So let your mom invite the two sisters. Then it's not on you that your future MIL isn't invited because you didn't do the invitations."

i really didnt think of that!!! good thought (: that gives me one big sigh of relief.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamiee Flathers:</b>" Okay this may be kind of long and i am sorry in advance. My finace's step mom is one crazy lady. We all ... [snip!] ... what I should do? I dont want to be mean an say look I dont want you there your crazy. He also doesn't want her there either."</blockquote>


just say SO. Its easier to spell. Anyways, mil will get over it, just dont say anything and if she confronts you say that she needs to put forth a more positive effort to be your friend. Hopefully she says nothing and ignores you for the rest of her life.