Quoting MommyCaroline:" pppssshhhh... I do everything in the house, organize and pay all the bills, shopping and take care of ... [snip!] ... Then he has the gall to get mad at me for not doing the dishes, or letting something be a mess for a day or two.... Dick...."
Quoting ~*Icat*~:" well thank you all. You've actually made me feel better about this disagreement. I do know there are ... [snip!] ... week. But mostly I need to figure out what he is expecting from me. I can't make him happy if I don't know what he wants. lol"This was huge for me. Good luck!!
Quoting ~*Icat*~:" i have to pester my husband about his responsibilities I feel like I'm nagging him ALL the time. ... [snip!] ... always fill to the brim. its disgusting. That's one of the things we will talk about, for sure. I just hate nagging him."
Quoting MommyCaroline:" I feel the same way, and we've had talks about it, and how he makes me feel like a freaking 50's housewife or a maid... He does good for like... A DAY, then goes back to being a dick."
Quoting the grace life:" My dh isn't great about it either. I've learned to love him to death when he does though, he feels the positive response...wants more of it...and does it more often. "
Quoting ~*Icat*~:" How much time would you say to do the following: play with the children would you consider supervising ... [snip!] ... as possible, of what I could put in my own job description. and yea, i consider BG "parenting education time" "
Quoting MommyCaroline:" Oh and before DD was born (she's 3yo) we had this agreement, that whoever made dinner, the other would do the dinner dishes.... I'm STILL waiting for that to take effect. lol"
Quoting B♥Z:" I do most of the cleaning/laundry, all of the cooking, all of the shopping/meal planning, all of the ... [snip!] ... additional mess that is made after he gets home, we both clean up. He will put a load of laundry in, but never folds it."
Quoting ~*Icat*~:" he sounds like a good team player. My husband is a GREAT father and husband...he's just...cleanliness ... [snip!] ... our spaces organized and clean. he's come a LONG way in our ten years together, but still...he has a looooong way to go. lol"