Quoting Vindictive:" You lost her during labor, right? I now wonder if there wasn't something else wrong with Mya. It was ... [snip!] ... "Oh, yeah.. that's why she died".. but maybe there was more. I hate struggling with what-ifs that will never be explained. "
I did. So she hadn't been gone for long when she was born. The only thing that was "wrong" with her physical appearance was her color and a little bruising.
I feel the exact same way. They labeled it a cord accident, and they're probably right. But I also tested positive for GBS earlier in the pregnancy, which can cause stillbirth. Plus, I developed a really bad infection after I had her. So a part of me wants to believe it was just a freak accident, but the other part of me wonders if they just gave me the easy answer.
They really do suck.