Quoting Brittney Ivanov:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" So you chose not to go to school?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... for some people to go to college. It wasn't hard for me but for some it may be too much. Idk I haven't been in that situation."

I was being rude? wth? I just asked a question.

And no, I didn't read what you said. I skimmed it at most. I'd honestly never give up school because I am having a baby...but that's just me.

Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Stop already you DO NOT know her full situation get off your high horse and give her a break or heres a clue read the whole damn OP before opening your mouth"

she doesnt need to stop the op asked opinions and shes getting them

<blockquote><b>Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:</b>" Washington state covers childcare for families with special needs children they are top priority i had ... [snip!] ... to get help where as my friend who has no job but has a special needs child was able to get child care the day she applied ."</blockquote>

Like I said, I WAS confused. Now that its cleared up I agree she should work. Will it only cover the one with DS though? Would she have to pay for the 3 that aren't special needs?

Oh my gosh lol...

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" As a mother's its my job to ensure my child isn't neglected. So me working will have no effect on how well my child is taken care of. "

You can't guarantee that...

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" Truthfully, it does. It makes Raptor Jesus a better parent than the OP since she would be willing to ... [snip!] ... came to shove. OP is in a push come to shove situation and is still trying to find reasons/excuses why she shouldn't work."

You are a smurfing raging bitch for that her LO has DS do some smurfing research she is trying to weigh out options to see which would be better for her LO which IMHO would be her being a SAHM

Quoting Brittney Ivanov:" <blockquote><b>Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:</b>" Washington state covers childcare for families ... [snip!] ... I agree she should work. Will it only cover the one with DS though? Would she have to pay for the 3 that aren't special needs?"

she only has 2 kids and yes they would both be covered

<blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" I was being rude? wth? I just asked a question. And no, I didn't read what you said. I skimmed it at most. I'd honestly never give up school because I am having a baby...but that's just me. "</blockquote>

Well not everyone feels that way. I commend you for getting an education and for striving to provide for your child. There's nothing wrong with that. Just like there's nothing wrong with some moms choosing to stay at home. If they absolutely can't afford it there is a problem with that attitude, but if they can afford it then by all means stay at home. To each their own i guess.

Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" You are a smurfing raging bitch for that her LO has DS do some smurfing research she is trying to weigh out options to see which would be better for her LO which IMHO would be her being a SAHM"

do you have anything intelligent to add?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:</b>" You are a smurfing raging bitch for that her LO has DS do some smurfing research she is trying to weigh out options to see which would be better for her LO which IMHO would be her being a SAHM"</blockquote>




Give it a break with the name calling. Lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:</b>" she only has 2 kids and yes they would both be covered "</blockquote>

Oh. Why the hell did I think she had 4?! Lmao. And well then I'd say get to work! Especially when it seems its needed so badly. Idk...it's hard. I can't imagine not staying home but if I HAD to work I would.

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:</b>" You are a smurfing raging bitch for that ... [snip!] ... be better for her LO which IMHO would be her being a SAHM"</blockquote> Give it a break with the name calling. Lol."

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittney Ivanov:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" I was being rude? wth? I just asked ... [snip!] ... it there is a problem with that attitude, but if they can afford it then by all means stay at home. To each their own i guess."</blockquote>




Thank you! Which has been out whole point...op cant afford it. I said i was kind of stuck up toward SAHMs. And if people read what I was saying correctly, it was mainly toward the moms that have no business staying at home. All I said was that I will forever thank my mom for working even though She didn't have to.

Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:" Yeah I am a dumb ass...because I've never had to apply for a loan and I just don't know how it works....which I later sad. Good for your husband though! "

Thought I would add in also I am a SAHM

Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Thought I would add in also I am a SAHM"

and that matters why?