|Be a SAHM|
|Get a job|
Quoting Ryloonjimama:" Yeah I did, some smurf about not being able to rely on your BD... and some smurf about your parents put ... [snip!] ... like you should be able to afford to pay full child care. If you can't, shame on you... after all, that is YOUR job, right?"
Quoting Brittney Ivanov:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ｺﾗﾟ｡ｱｩｵﾗｺ:</b>" how you are acting is ignorant . your situation ... [snip!] ... rather stay at home with my child, it's what I want to do. And I don't think anyone should be frowned upon if they choose to."
Quoting S&T+1:" 14 out of 20 people are the majority."
Quoting ｺﾗﾟ｡ｱｩｵﾗｺ:" The op has no real income and neither of them have a job so why do you think its smart for her to stay home when her mans job isnt guaranteed nor is his school money "
Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:" I'm not rubbing anything in her face! I am just showing her that getting a job can make her life A LOT better. Two incomes is always better than one. I was just using my parents as an example."
Quoting Brittney Ivanov:" Also, both my parents worked. We were very wealthy and my parents always told me it was up to us to pay ... [snip!] ... to work hard in school and strive to receive a scholarship but if she's doesn't I don't see a problem with us helping her out."
Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:" Do they say you can use the extra money for whatever you please? If not, that's a really sad way of taking advantage of people that are trying to help you."
Quoting Kendra65:" What if getting a job means you will never see your child/children or they are somehow neglected ... [snip!] ... because you are never around, is it a better life then? 2 incomes isnt always in the best interest of the family in my opinion."
Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" It would be called a refund dumb ass. my DH is going to school for welding and has the post 9/11 bill and he gets refunds every semester right along with every other college student."
Quoting Brittney Ivanov:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ｺﾗﾟ｡ｱｩｵﾗｺ:</b>" The op has no real income and neither of them ... [snip!] ... answered and if child care is covered she should definetly get a job and have extra money around for emergencies etc...."Washington state covers childcare for families with special needs children they are top priority i had to wait on a waiting list to get help where as my friend who has no job but has a special needs child was able to get child care the day she applied .
Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:" You can help by getting a job...."
Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Stop already you DO NOT know her full situation get off your high horse and give her a break or heres a clue read the whole damn OP before opening your mouth"