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Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ryloonjimama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nova and ... [snip!] ... family needs stability like anyone else's. But she's too selfish to begin to provide it. She'd rather live off the government."You are 21 years old and are pregnant with your first child who isn't even born yet and by the looks of your page, I gather that you are having "baby daddy" issues but you want to get on the case of a woman who already has children and one who happens to have medical needs who is living at home happily and has no baby daddy drama and you want to tell her what is best for her kids and her family?! I just don't see how you are in any position to give any advice to anyone regarding how to raise a family.
Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:</b>" Obviously, that's why my SO is ... [snip!] ... trying to convince whoever but ill say it again, I will never know struggle. I'm sorry you lack the ambition my parents had."How can you say you will never know struggle? You are 21 years old for Christ's sake!! You haven't even lived life yet!! You've probably had everything HANDED to you!
Quoting ナdeℓis ϟ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:</b>" Obviously, that's why my SO is ... [snip!] ... trying to convince whoever but ill say it again, I will never know struggle. I'm sorry you lack the ambition my parents had."And were either of them raising a child with Down Syndrome? You seem to forget that crucial part of the whole conversation in every single argument you post. If she didn't have DS, I would probably be going back to school and trying to get a part time job and everything. But raising a child with DS is no walk in the park, it is hard. We've been told that she probably won't be walking until she's 18 months or more, and that's typical for children with down syndrome, and that's if we work really hard with her physical therapy like we have been. Not to mention all the appointments and follow ups she has to go to. You may have come into this thread with good intentions, but your just making yourself sound like a judgmental bitch. You unsubscribed for a reason, and if you keep coming back, obviously your just looking to start smurf. So please, just stop and go educate yourself.
Quoting Shanaddy:" I didn't go through and read everything, but I worked for Best Buy for 3 uears. Unless he gets hired ... [snip!] ... a week or the company gets in trouble. The discount is nice though! And if you can afford it, stay home with your babies! "No, he wouldn't be working full time, but he did say he would be working daily. Not full shifts, he said 3 hours at the least, but he would be working daily. He would be working in the back.
Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:" No, he wouldn't be working full time, but he did say he would be working daily. Not full shifts, he said ... [snip!] ... they'll reduce it. So i'm going to use that help for her and make sure she gets the proper attention she needs and deserves. "