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Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Coupon Lady:</b>" I am not talking about when a child can ... [snip!] ... child knie that they should be sorry for hurting another child but dont force them to say. I agree but let them think about it."

thats what I said, is to let them think about, and not forcing them in the first place. Telling them to say it when they are ready.