I'd let them do what they think is best. I don't know how I'd feel as I'm not in the situation. I can't force them to keep or give the baby up. I have to support my daughter/son.

Quoting kthx.:" I'd ask them if they would let me adopt the baby. That way, the financial burden and total responsibility ... [snip!] ... will stay in the family. If they didn't want to do that.... I'd still support them adopting the baby out to a different family."

  

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" For those who chose you would do whatever you could to keep it in the family, why? "

Because I'd feel like no one else would be good enough for the baby. You never really know how people would parent until you've seen them parent first hand.
And that way she could still be a part of the childs life without all of the responsibilities that come along with it.

Quoting kthx.:" I'd ask them if they would let me adopt the baby. That way, the financial burden and total responsibility ... [snip!] ... will stay in the family. If they didn't want to do that.... I'd still support them adopting the baby out to a different family."

So would I.

Quoting the grace life:" Support them, regardless of how I felt. It may break my heart, but it's not my choice. I'd have to stand by them in support. "

 

Quoting S&T+1:" Because I'd feel like no one else would be good enough for the baby. You never really know how people ... [snip!] ... hand. And that way she could still be a part of the childs life without all of the responsibilities that come along with it."

What if they didnt want any of that? What if that just made things worse for her?

And would you go as far as bribing them with stuff to keep the baby?

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" What if they didnt want any of that? What if that just made things worse for her? And would you go as far as bribing them with stuff to keep the baby? "

No, definitely not.
I'd try to keep the baby in the family to make it easier on her but if she wanted to adopt to someone outside of the family I would still support that decision.

I would support them 100%.

My mother chose adoption for her second child (of 6 pregnancies). I completely respect her decision and I thanked her for making it as it meant my life was better because of it.

Thank you for everyone input.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" What if they didnt want any of that? What if that just made things worse for her? And would you go as far as bribing them with stuff to keep the baby? "

Ew no, I wouldn't bribe

Well when I was pregnant and thinking about adoption. BDs family had a cow, started calling lawyers and smurf.  

Quoting May ♥:" Well when I was pregnant and thinking about adoption. BDs family had a cow, started calling lawyers and smurf.  "

If the father wants to parent, that is a completely different scenario than someone's mother or aunt or something like that.

I would personally adopt the child myself.