Quoting cunning cuniculi:" I was at my dads visiting last night, he is taking care of his baby when the phone rings. Its a plattsburgh ... [snip!] ... now my mom has renal-something-something cancer, and it moved to her breast. anyone know the chances i will get it too?"
Quoting .Colleen.:" Be there as much as you can emotionally, thats all you can do. While it sounds like you owe her nothing, I think you would regret her dying alone."