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husband objects to pain relief during labor?

posted 5th Nov
Any of you ladies ever had your husband/so/bd object to you having pain relief during labor? I know I want to have an epidural, I had one with my first delivery and it was great.

My husband keeps saying that I'm a wimp because women have been having babies forever and epidurals are just modern technology, blah blah. I really want to hit him for acting like a dick about it. He isn't going to change my mind, but it makes me feel bad that he thinks I'm a wimp.
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I have 2 kids & live in California
posted 5th Nov
You can always offer to shove a bowling ball up his dick, then ask him how it feels.
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I have 3 kids & live in Hephzibah, Georgia
posted 5th Nov
Tell him you will have a drug free birth after you shove a milkshake straw in his pee hole.  
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I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
posted 5th Nov
Quoting breathingchaos:" Tell him you will have a drug free birth after you shove a milkshake straw in his pee hole.  "

 
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I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 5th Nov
Tell him to go smurf himself, then proceed to kick him and the balls and he better not ice them or he's a wimp  
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Nov
Quoting wannaknow:" Any of you ladies ever had your husband/so/bd object to you having pain relief during labor? I know I ... [snip!] ... hit him for acting like a dick about it. He isn't going to change my mind, but it makes me feel bad that he thinks I'm a wimp."

My first thought was telling him to pee a watermelon out of his weiner and see if he can do it without medication. Then you'll talk.   He's being a jerk.
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I have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Massachusetts
posted 5th Nov
I feel like your hubs does. I got to the hospital and was 7cm and no big deal. I was texting the whole time lol
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I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 5th Nov
Quoting wannaknow:" Any of you ladies ever had your husband/so/bd object to you having pain relief during labor? I know I ... [snip!] ... hit him for acting like a dick about it. He isn't going to change my mind, but it makes me feel bad that he thinks I'm a wimp."

When he squirts an 8 pound human out of his butthole, he can opt for no meds.

For you, the choice is yours alone.
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I have 2 kids & live in Ireland
posted 5th Nov
I'd grab his balls and dig my nails into them and say 'oh I'm sorry! Does that hurt? Be a man and suck it up. You don't get pain relief'
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I have 2 kids & live in Fredericksburg, Virginia
posted 5th Nov
Tell him to wait outside like they used to do and to not concern himself with what you do.
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I'm TTC since August '12, have 1 child & live in St Louis, Missouri
posted 5th Nov
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" You can always offer to shove a bowling ball up his dick, then ask him how it feels."

LOL.. I told him I should be able to kick him in the balls every time I contract and see how he likes it. 
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I have 2 kids & live in California
posted 5th Nov
Make a deal with him. Have him put his frank'n'beans in a vice for the entirety of your labor. Then you both can be champs together.
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I have 3 kids & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 5th Nov
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" You can always offer to shove a bowling ball up his dick, then ask him how it feels."


  
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I have 2 kids & live in Georgia
posted 5th Nov
My hubby is opposed...but so am I, so we agree.

We both feel its just too dangerous and I'd rather be in pain for a couple days (my first labor was 36 hours of active labor and longer of early labor) than put myself or my baby at risk.
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I'm due May 28th (a girl), have 1 child & 6 angel babies & live in California
posted 5th Nov
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" I feel like your hubs does. I got to the hospital and was 7cm and no big deal. I was texting the whole time lol"

How about when you got to 10?
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
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