very bad self estimee help me

ok look i weigh 135 n i can not get it down somtimes it will be 132 then back to 135 i wear a size 7-9 n i used to be 3-5 iam not like super fat i look good i got hips booty n thick legs n a little waist i kinda like it but whenever i see skinny chicks i feel bad n i get super sad
my baby turned 9 months n now its easier to go run n i been doing sit ups n all kinds of workouts n i been eatting less i have stoped eatting breads n
TACO BELL i drink slimfast after breakfast n i really hate doing all this n i feel like just giving up my boyfriend tells me i look pretty n dont worry about it i have such a low self estime n now that suimsuit season is in i feel very bad i tried some on n i could not find one i liked on me i was in a sucky mood all day is it just me or is there anyone else out there tell me how to raise my self estime o do i need caunseling 

Quoting yoly:“ ok look i weigh 135 n i can not get it down somtimes it will be 132 then back to 135 i wear a size 7-9 ... [snip!] ... sucky mood all day is it just me or is there anyone else out there tell me how to raise my self estime o do i need caunseling ”

are you pregnant now? if so theres nothing you can really do as far as loosing weight. if not then just relax enjoy being a mommy. talk to your DR is your that conserned

wait are you pregnant? if you are. you shouldn't work out or be losing weight

right now i have a poach i never used to have, strech marks so bad they will NEVER GO AWAY, i weigh 140ish, i used to weigh between 125-130, my legs are the sizeof watermelons, i see in shower on a touch and baises, and my hair is forever a mess. but you know what, i love my body. this is me. and i'm happy this way. just because i don't try and starve so that clothes hang off me like hangers in the store, with a horrible diet that is slowly killing me, doesnt mean i can't be happy. do you know that the average woman is about 5'2'' and weighs 125-140? the average model is 5'6'' and weighs 110? you know what i think? curves are the greatest thing. i think you look great.

Somethings you cant change.
I was JUST like you... I weighed 120-125 before being pregnant and in a size 5.
I wont weigh myself now, but Im in a size 8 (between 7's and 9's, neither fit right)
I dont feel fat, but I have a bit of a pudge that I thought was no big deal... the other day a woman asked if I was having a boy next, because I have a belly (bitch, grrr)

BUT, If I judged my awesome-ness on my size and weight, I would never be happy.
What DOES make me feel good about myself is that I have a beautiful healthy little girl, a man who loves me, and a good heart...
I know swimsuit season sucks (trust me) but if you count the blessings you do have, it makes it alot less painfull... it REALLY does...


PM me, I'd love to talk to you.

I only wish I could fit into my 7 or 9s again...Now this just depresses me even more.

im sorry i am just being dumb do not get depressed i just got to learn how to love my body a little more and appreciate life
o n no im not pregnant again i have no clue how it got like dat but i changed it

Quoting yoly:“ ok look i weigh 135 n i can not get it down somtimes it will be 132 then back to 135 i wear a size 7-9 ... [snip!] ... sucky mood all day is it just me or is there anyone else out there tell me how to raise my self estime o do i need caunseling ”

I posted a helpful topic for women trying to lose the weight... check it out..

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about232996.html

Quoting HeatherOO7:“ Somethings you cant change. I was JUST like you... I weighed 120-125 before being pregnant and in a size ... [snip!] ... if you count the blessings you do have, it makes it alot less painfull... it REALLY does... PM me, I'd love to talk to you.”

You are so right. We as women are so hard on ourselves.