Quoting NevviesMom:" My child would NOT be having solo visits. As a matter of fact, I would do everything in my power to keep bastard ex bf from ever meeting LO"
Quoting Andrea0510:" Hell would freeze over before i would let someone like that near my child. Just because he was the sperm donor doesn't make him a father."
that is well said you can donate the sperm but in no way shape or form does that mean he is a father or has rights... I would give the child your last name because if you give him his he can fight if he chooses to which from the sounds of it would only be bad...If a man got physical to me while carrying his child I would hurt him. You deserve better than that and so does that baby in your belly...He doesn't need to see mommy and daddy constantly fighting like that if he thinks you should have an abortion obviously this man isn't mature enough to handle the responsibility and is just trying to get out of it. I hope your ok and the baby is as well you don't deserve that think about your son he is going to grow up and learn its ok to hit mommy or put his hands on mommy which is a big NO!
Quoting *J*:" Id be getting a restraining order. Hed have to take me to court for visitation as well."
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Quoting Tabitha Barbour:" That is a good point, I don't want my son thinking it's ok to ever hit ANY woman regardless of who she ... [snip!] ... I am getting a order of protection against him tomorrow. I just didn't want to seem like a bitch for not letting him see him."That does not make you a bitch for refusing to let someone see him who has been abusive to you and abusive to your unborn child. It makes you a caring and responsible mother who is doing what is right to keep him safe.