How did you pick yourself up :(?

The father of my LO and I were supposed to be able to fix everything and it was so good for a while, and one arguement led to him putting his hands on me, and causing me to be in the hospital because I needed to make sure my child was ok. He is officially gone and says he can't do this anymore, and I am hurting more then anything I don't know how to pick myself up and dust off the pain of losing the one man I love more then anything. I know he is not good for me and he is probably not good for my child either. I am just hurt and confused and I don't know what to do. I know I don't need to be with a man who puts his hands on me and now I am not. How do I pick myself up, how do I assure myself it's all going to be okay, i've never felt so alone or had to hurt so bad in my life and now it's like it's all falling apart in front of my eyes. Please no rude comments I can't emotionally handle anything rude right now.

Just think of your child that's what you have to do it for if you can't do it for you do it for her she needs you you want better than that for her don't you? Good luck I know you can do it!

It takes time. There is not a answer on how to make yourself feel better and get over him. Go out wit hfriends. Watch movies to make you cry.

I have been there. Honestly, you just do get through it. You cry and cry and cry, then you after time realize that you are better without his crap.It is a slow process and its painful but, you can always find new love in the future. Once the baby comes and you hold the baby..you'll never feel the need for anything else for that time and it will help you forget your pain. You will feel lonely but that passes. You are doing the right thing leaving him. Then in a few years you will feel so strong for making it through such a tough time and you'll feel like super women!

Quoting Mrs cree:" Just think of your child that's what you have to do it for if you can't do it for you do it for her she needs you you want better than that for her don't you? Good luck I know you can do it!"

Yes I do want that. I want my son to have the world, I want him to have everything I did not have!

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" It takes time. There is not a answer on how to make yourself feel better and get over him. Go out wit hfriends. Watch movies to make you cry. "

Crying makes me feel like a bad mom, I know that sounds crazy, but everytime I cry I start to cramp and I feel him getting upset and it makes me feel horrible .

Quoting Aphrodite0405:" I have been there. Honestly, you just do get through it. You cry and cry and cry, then you after time ... [snip!] ... him. Then in a few years you will feel so strong for making it through such a tough time and you'll feel like super women!"

I just hate feeling so alone I still have 4 months left and that feels like a lifetime. I just want time to hurry and fly by instead of passing so slowly.

Do you have a friend you can talk too when you really feel down?

Quoting Tabitha Barbour:" Crying makes me feel like a bad mom, I know that sounds crazy, but everytime I cry I start to cramp and I feel him getting upset and it makes me feel horrible ."

You arent horrible. Trust me. lol. When my oldest sons father left me I cried my eyes out. I cried for days. All I say is now is good riddance. lol. you have to do whatever you have to do to make you feel better.

Quoting Mrs cree:" Do you have a friend you can talk too when you really feel down?"

I would if I had my phone but since it turned into the point that he put his hands on me I tried to call the cops and he broke my phone the only thing I have is internet and so I don't really have any of my friends numbers or anything now. So not really other then the computer no.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" You arent horrible. Trust me. lol. When my oldest sons father left me I cried my eyes out. I cried ... [snip!] ... out. I cried for days. All I say is now is good riddance. lol. you have to do whatever you have to do to make you feel better. "

I hope I am able to say that soon I really wish that I had been drunk or something or I know this sounds bad but in a way I wish I didn't even know who the daddy was, which I don't mean I would rather be a whore, I just feel like if I didn't love him then things would be easier for me right now. I just don't want to stress him out and hurt him while I am pregnant with him.

Just think about your baby, I know it hurts I was in a similar situtation and please trust me you make your son your priorty and you'll be ok! don't let him hurt you and be strong!!! if u need someone to talk to I'll be happy to listen (:

Quoting Anthony's Mommyyy:" Just think about your baby, I know it hurts I was in a similar situtation and please trust me you make ... [snip!] ... your priorty and you'll be ok! don't let him hurt you and be strong!!! if u need someone to talk to I'll be happy to listen (:"

Thank you  . And my little guy is my favorite priority now. Being strong was something i was always good at and now not so much. I know it gets better i Just wish I knew exactly when.