Outreach for help

How is asking for help an argument? I just don't get it. I know I'm worth more than this. He just doesn't understand. He doesn't want to understand.

You mean you are asking your husband for more help? I'm not sure exactly what the question is...but if that's the case, he could feel like you're saying "You don't do anything to help me." Instead of "I need help."

Quoting Chim Richalds:" You mean you are asking your husband for more help? I'm not sure exactly what the question is...but if ... [snip!] ... is...but if that's the case, he could feel like you're saying "You don't do anything to help me." Instead of "I need help.""

Not husband, just boyfriend. I just want him to be there emotionally. I've got nobody. I mean I'm sure I do but I don't feel like I do. When him and I were just friends I could tell him anything now when I try to it is always "You are always trying to start a fight with me" I stay calm. I just want tobe able to talk. Counselling doesn't work for me, but if I can tell somebody close to me how I feel then i'm good. I don't have anybody though.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" Not husband, just boyfriend. I just want him to be there emotionally. I've got nobody. I mean I'm sure ... [snip!] ... Counselling doesn't work for me, but if I can tell somebody close to me how I feel then i'm good. I don't have anybody though. "

I get it, trust me. Sorry  

Quoting Chim Richalds:" I get it, trust me. Sorry  "

Honestly last night I ended up drinking over a 5th of vodka and not sure how many pills I popped. I'm just tired of it all. My kids are the only thing I have.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" Honestly last night I ended up drinking over a 5th of vodka and not sure how many pills I popped. I'm just tired of it all. My kids are the only thing I have. "

  sorry. When you say you're sure you have people but it doesn't feel like it, you mean you have friends and family but no one you're comfortable confiding in? That is how I feel. Tons of people to talk about the weather and my kids' milestones with, Yay.

Quoting Chim Richalds:"   sorry. When you say you're sure you have people but it doesn't feel like it, you mean you have friends ... [snip!] ... comfortable confiding in? That is how I feel. Tons of people to talk about the weather and my kids' milestones with, Yay."

yeap that is exactly how I feel. If I'm having alcohol at my house everybody wants to come over. If i'm just wanting somebodyt o come over and hang out or just watch a movie or tv with I get ditched. I don't really mean smurf to them. Actually I just reconnected with an old friend and he came over today just to talk. It was nice.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" yeap that is exactly how I feel. If I'm having alcohol at my house everybody wants to come over. If i'm ... [snip!] ... really mean smurf to them. Actually I just reconnected with an old friend and he came over today just to talk. It was nice. "

That is nice. I hope you find what you need and he is a real friend.

Quoting Chim Richalds:" That is nice. I hope you find what you need and he is a real friend."

I'm surprised he forgave me for what I did. I wasn't nice but he has always been on my side. He always was the one to listen. once I cut him out of my life things got worse. I just hope nothing happens to him.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" yeap that is exactly how I feel. If I'm having alcohol at my house everybody wants to come over. If i'm ... [snip!] ... really mean smurf to them. Actually I just reconnected with an old friend and he came over today just to talk. It was nice. "

You have me every day Kala. EVERY DAY.

Quoting Milk Monster:" You have me every day Kala. EVERY DAY."

I know but its not the same as sitting there and talking to somebody. and for the next 2 weeks school has you. so   If you don't finish school I'm kicking yo ass.1

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" I know but its not the same as sitting there and talking to somebody. and for the next 2 weeks school has you. so   If you don't finish school I'm kicking yo ass.1"

:p I know.   Sucks that I can't be there, be there, KWIM? OMG kick my ass! I need to get school done!