re: Need advice.

Quoting That Girl.:" Actually I did give you advice, it may have not been what you wanted to hear but it was advice."

The advice wasn't needed cause I'm not with my son's dad? I don't want to be with him. But I'm definitely not going to put up with disrespect from his girlfriend. It's his fault that he is in all of this. I don't care, I'm worried about the life our son will have. & i'm worried about following the court order that we have. There is a no-contact order on them anyway & i've reported them violating it since they violated it around my son, it's child endangerment. I'm not going to allow her to sit there and put her two cents in about my child's well being when she is the one making anything in my child's life go wrong. Cause all she has done is manipulate his dad into starting drama with me, which affect our son. Cause she can't get her panties out of a bunch and get over the fact that he has a kid with me. YES, he keeps trying to get back together with me, but that isn't my fault it is HIS. I have rejected him multiple times. But she blames me because she wants her life to be some "perfect" thing. All of the drama goes right back to her & I am sick of it. I'm not biting my tongue anymore. I'm taking a stand for me & my child. & no one has a right to judge me for that because you have no clue what all she has done in the past year & what crap i've had to put up with. It's been non-stop and I try to stay out of it, but she won't stop. Then she wants everyone to feel sorry for her. She says she is being "bullied". Honey she is 18. It's time to stop wanting everyone to feel sorry for you and grow up and stay out of my business. I can't even contact my son's dad. I have to contact HER. & i am so DONE with the bs & drama. But I am not going to let her talk crap. That isn't going to happen. She has no authority over me. To me she is nothing. I could make her have her child in jail right now with all the threats I have proof of from her.

Well never once did I say I felt sorry for her or thought you were in the wrong. I was simply meaning its a shame that you two are fighting like this when you have a son with her bf and she's expecting one with him too. Though I think its pretty common to have bs when a guy this young has kids with two different chicks. Like I said though, because you two are posting for the world to see, your going to get comments such as mine, because your in an OPEN FORUM. I do understand sticking up for your son belive me. But the way you too are bickering back and fourth is pretty petty. And it all revolves around the dude in jail.

The only reason I said anything on here was because she wont say anything to my face. All she does is rant about it to other people & on the internet. So when she posted it on here, I told her how it was going to be. Hopefully I won't have to deal with her anymore after we go back to court cause i'll be getting a retraining order & she won't be around my son.

Quoting Dylan'smommy011:" The only reason I said anything on here was because she wont say anything to my face. All she does is ... [snip!] ... to deal with her anymore after we go back to court cause i'll be getting a retraining order & she won't be around my son. "

Well hopefully for your kids sake, this smurf will die out soon  
Y'alls kids will be siblings, and maybe oneday you two can be civil not just you but her too.

i have tried multiple times to be civil with you everything was fine 2 weeks ago. i posted a topic putting my concern about prestons son. after you told me you didnt like it i droped it and have not said another word about him. your the one that is carrying on with this. i even asked you on here if we can ignore each other and keep each others names out of our mouths. Yes everyone on here is right it is very imature to bicker on the internet, which is why i have not kept going and this will be the last post i put about this topic. if i ignore you and you ignore me there is no drama. ok so im going to go life my life now do what ever you want on her bye