feeling alone :(

here lately my boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with me, and when he finally does he just hurries, before i got pregnant everything was fine and has been till just recently. im 34 weeks, now! i keep catching him looking at other girls and it makes me self conscious, and i caught him lookin at porn the other day?! any suggestions on what to do, i feel alone, and unattractive.

Quoting Kristen Morgan Taylor:" here lately my boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with me, and when he finally does he just hurries, before ... [snip!] ... self conscious, and i caught him lookin at porn the other day?! any suggestions on what to do, i feel alone, and unattractive."

If this is his first he may be worried that he could hurt you or the baby. try talking to him and see where his head is at. maybe try looking at porn with him

yeah ive tried talking to him, ive tried doing things i know he used to talk about wanting to do with me, and he just doesnt want to have no part in it. i asked him if its bc im so far into my pregnancy but he says no. and yes this is his first....

It also grosses alot of men out- i think if i was a man id be grossed out too.

I had my first at 17--8 yrs ago tomoro! At that age sorry to tell u all(boys) are looking at other girls--

Quoting Victoria Brown87:" I had my first at 17--8 yrs ago tomoro! At that age sorry to tell u all(boys) are looking at other girls--"

 

OP,

It's a testosterone thing, love. My man, near 30 now, still looks at other girls (which is fine by me, since usually I'm looking at them too). All men are going to look, it doesn't mean they find them any more attractive than you.

You need to talk to him about how you're feeling.