Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" Yeah and the officer who showed up had nothing to do with it all. He was faithfully married to someone else and had no idea what was going on in the PD."
Yeah. See, I think sadly the wife may be looking for someone to blame, since the gunman killed himself. It's got to be hard when to person to blame is gone. ALl that anger, there isn't anyone to direct it at.
But IMO it was the gunman's fault. I don't think that people who are totally free to sleep together should be held responsibly (or accountable) for the actions of a madman.
*IF* they were truly harassing him (as in, calling or contacting him to gloat about sleeping with her) then they should possibly be held accountable for harassment, but not for the death of the officer.