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So I had FINALLY come to the point where I was able to communicate with DD's "dad" in a decent manner.... I sent him a text about DD and he sent some stupid text saying to leave him alone or he'd "sick his girl on me"... I snapped. The text just didn't seem like he wrote it... So, being that I literally snapped, (I've dug myself into a pit trying to figure out how the smurf to deal with him) I wrote back some stuff about how he cheated and was screwing her while still screwing me and blah blah.... I really don't think it was him that wrote that message... so my attempt was to have the stupid bitch read it.... something I wouldn't normally do.... but I am done with his mind-smurfing ass... I have one last paper to file until I have full custody. He's too busy living with a woman who has no standards and raising her 7 year old instead of raising the child he had with his "best friend" and "soul mate" *puuukkkeeeeeeee* "sick my girl on you".... AHHH Ha ha ha... I mean really???? I didn't know we were resorting to immature tactics.... Has anyone been in a similar situation? It really shocked me.... though I shouldn't be. lol As soon as I get this new job officially, I'm changing my number. This has all really gone on far, far too long.

I don't talk to bd except thru msgs on fb. He pisses me off & I think I would go off if I actually talked to him (its been 13 years). It sounds bad but I wish he would just disappear again instead of getting the kids hopes up & never coming thru

Quoting Is that still my name?:" So I had FINALLY come to the point where I was able to communicate with DD's "dad" in a decent manner.... ... [snip!] ... be. lol As soon as I get this new job officially, I'm changing my number. This has all really gone on far, far too long."

men are babies & will do whatever they can for pussy. Thats the honest truth, they can be immature little pigs. My ex is with a legit child abuser, who not only physically abused her children but is also facing sexual abuse charges. Shes court ordered to stay away from my son. Its like they choose the worst possible option, and go with that.



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Quoting Misty Walls:" I don't talk to bd except thru msgs on fb. He pisses me off & I think I would go off if I actually talked ... [snip!] ... been 13 years). It sounds bad but I wish he would just disappear again instead of getting the kids hopes up & never coming thru"

That's exactly how I feel.. unfortunately, his mother is a very strong influence on DDs life and she takes her every now and then. This last time he happened to show up. I flat out told her that he is not allowed to take her. She must stay with his mom at all times and no girlfriend allowed.... at least not this early in a rebound relationship. It has made things very difficult.

Quoting .jayna.:" men are babies & will do whatever they can for pussy. Thats the honest truth, they can be immature little ... [snip!] ... charges. Shes court ordered to stay away from my son. Its like they choose the worst possible option, and go with that. 0"

very true... people with no standards for themselves have no standards on who they date... he and she are exactly alike.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" That's exactly how I feel.. unfortunately, his mother is a very strong influence on DDs life and she ... [snip!] ... all times and no girlfriend allowed.... at least not this early in a rebound relationship. It has made things very difficult."</blockquote>



His family didn't bother with the kids once we broke up

Quoting Misty Walls:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" That's exactly how I feel.. unfortunately, ... [snip!] ... relationship. It has made things very difficult."</blockquote> His family didn't bother with the kids once we broke up"

that's just smurffy. I am very thankful for my mother-in-law, for lack of better words. She does some smurf that pisses me off but at least I know she will be a good grandma and financial support if she ever needs it. Although, she blames ME for getting pregnant and for the problems in the relationship. She doesn't even know who her son is... he couldn't hide all of his actions, and just the ones she knows about she doesn't like, but she still doesn't tell him any different. That's why he's smurfed up.