Somedays i seriously feel like my SO could fall in a hole and just disappear for a while and i wouldnt care. Im getting so annpyed because he is constantly trying to touch me and i dont know what it is but i cant stand being touched i have nervous break downs and end up in tears. But even at night while im trying to sleep he feels the need to make sure i know he is there 100% everynight and not by trying to cuddle or anything but we live together have a kitten and a black lab puppy who both sleep on our bed with us kitten above my head and theblack lqb usually at my feet or in between me and SO but our black lab is only 38 pounds and very small for a black lab, but anyways i sleep on the right side and SO "claimed" the left side but makes sure he sleeps at a smurfing angle with his feet on top of me if im trying to sleep or laying in bed! And at first i thought its just how he actually sleeps but NO! If i get up and leave and go to another room o just simply get out of bed he goes right back to "his" side and ill wait a while before i go back to bed and then it stays him on his side tell he wakes up and then spreads out at a smurfing angle again!! and then when i get mad at him and wake him up so he will move he says "its not like you dont need to be used to not sleeping im only helping" and it seriously makes me want to punch him in the face its late and i work 2 tell 11 and when i get home i want to go to smurfing bed and just sleep while i can because everyone is telling me to get as much sleep now. Our schedules are very off of eachothers as well he wakes up at 4a.m. and MAKES sure he wakes me up amd keeps me up until he leaves for work and he leaves at 630 for work and goes 7 to 3 mon-fri and i work 2 to 11 wed-sun so we have 2 days we spend hangingout and talking but he makes it very clear he hates my schedule and thinks its stupid but i dont like it either but guess what? It pays the bills so no im not going to complain much. ut my SO has just became the biggest ass ever because i get emotional over anything the slightlest thing can set me off and it "irrates" him so he feels like its "okay" and "fair" to annoy me, irrate me, and piss me off and then gets mad at me when i tell him not stop it of if i start to get emotional and he tells me how he misses the old me before i wapregnant! Well im smurfing sorry that im horomonal and find you to be an smurf! Ugh just seriously his stupidity just frustrates me! (sorry for spelling and if things didnt come out right my phone has issues with the keyboard and my laptop charger was chewed on by the kitten) but thats my lovely vent to get this off my chest.
Sounds like he's being a bit of a jerk but pregnancy makes everything a million times worse. My DH would never intentionally try to piss me off but still managed to, especially with this pregnancy when any physical contact just pissed me off and grossed me out.
Good luck and hopefully you two can worth through it. It only gets harder when you have a baby.
No offense, but it sounds like you are both being immature.
Sit down with him and tell him you are sensitive right now, and being touched constantly is making you irritable. I think he just wants your attention..
I know nothing about your relationship, but in my personal experience I am all too familiar with this feeling of not wanting to be touched with my ex husband. When we started having problems before I could even pinpoint that things were failing I began to feel disgusted and pained by his touch. He became an annoyance and eventually I never ever wanted him to touch me.
I don't know if this is anything like what you are going through, but if so, please seek marital counseling if you want to keep your marriage alive.