Idk what's goin on..

Ok normally I wouldn't have a problem with DH watching porn, because usually I don't feel like having sex. The past few weeks though he's stopped trying to get any from me and he watches porn and wacks it every night, sometimes a couple of times a night. His excuse used to be 'well you're just gonna tell me no anyways' or 'you don't wanna get pregnant again and we don't have any condoms' (which he throws a fit when he has to buy them. I tell him we can go in together but he always tells me no that I have to go in and get them.) That hasn't been the case lately, we still have a few left. But he still tells me he loves me and all like normal. He'll just go to bed earlier without saying anything and I'll end up walking in on him. I just don't know what's going on with him. And of course, him not acting like he wants me is making me insecure. He always complains that I'm not open/affectionate enough so I wrote him a 2-page love letter the other day and it didn't change anything.

Ugh idk.  

He's probably turning to porn because you're not giving him none. You say no often, if I was him, I'd just stop trying also.

how often do you tell him no? it sounds like he just got tired of being shot down all the time so hes taking care of himself. i dont blame him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting dmarie2101:</b>" how often do you tell him no? it sounds like he just got tired of being shot down all the time so hes taking care of himself. i dont blame him."</blockquote>




Not as often as I used to. We were having sex a few times a week up until a few weeks ago when this all started. And before that we went about four months(the end of my pregnancy and then 8wks PP was the cause of that) without sex and he would try every night.