Quoting **ž~~emily~~ž**:" My life just feels like its missing something now.. my heart just has this huge hole. It seems crazy..I only carried him/her 12 short weeks(a day or two shy) but I still feel so broken over it."
That's normal, and there's nothing wrong with it. The best advice I can give you is to not try to grieve and get over it as fast as you think you should. Give yourself time, let yourself cry. But know that when you go a few days without thinking about the baby, it's okay. It's okay to feel guilty too, but don't forget that at some point *your* life has to go on. I know it sucks, I've been there, but its the truth. Like I said, I've been where you are, and if you wanna talk, just PM me.